Wednesday, November 30, 2016


This advice or sayings was captured from somewhere (sent to me by a friend through Watsapp nessages) and are not from my Mom but it could have very well been (bless her soul).

This is what I would and should tell my daughters too....

"Do not allow him to consume you. If he does not call, go to sleep. If he does not message, put your phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he acts distant when you are with him and refuses to tell you what is wrong, don’t wait for him, go home and do something you love. If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friends now that you have him, spend more time with your friends. If he tries to teach you a lesson through the silent treatment, ignore him completely.

If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he acts like your body is his entitlement when you are not ready, walk away from him. If he says terrible, unforgivable things and threatens to leave you after every argument, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him. If he claims ownership of your accomplishments, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him.

I cannot stress this enough, you live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book."

Easier said than done? You bet.

Thursday, November 17, 2016


It has been a while since I was here last and my readers (if any) must be wondering where I had disappeared to or maybe thinking I had perhaps completed my journey on earth and now mid-way to heaven... hahaha... Well, I hope to one day in God's time, but for now I am well and still kicking.

Has been besieged by other types of social media and have pretty much been relying on Watsapp, Instagram and FB  as my form of communication to the outside world.  Blogging has therefore taken a backseat.. at least for a while though this will always remain precious.  So what's up with me?

So much and yet nothing much but will do some uploading of pictures taken during my travels lest one day memory fail.

Bayswater, London 
Sept. 2016

With friends at Liberty Island, yonder
Skyline of Manhattan, New York 
(Sept. 2016)

Near the United Nations building , New York

Washington Square, NY

Hyde Park, London

Taken in front of the hotel we stayed, a Malaysian owned hotel
Berjaya Park Hotel, London

Up close and personal Statue of Liberty, NY.

My 2 weeks visit to London and New York in September 2016 shall always remain as one of my greatest travelling experiences.  More about the trip soon.


My eldest expression meeting her old folks for the first time in almost a! We visiting her at the big city where she resi...