Wednesday, November 30, 2016

ADVICE THAT MY MOTHER GAVE ME..




This advice or sayings was captured from somewhere (sent to me by a friend through Watsapp nessages) and are not from my Mom but it could have very well been (bless her soul).


This is what I would and should tell my daughters too....

"Do not allow him to consume you. If he does not call, go to sleep. If he does not message, put your phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he acts distant when you are with him and refuses to tell you what is wrong, don’t wait for him, go home and do something you love. If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friends now that you have him, spend more time with your friends. If he tries to teach you a lesson through the silent treatment, ignore him completely.

If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he acts like your body is his entitlement when you are not ready, walk away from him. If he says terrible, unforgivable things and threatens to leave you after every argument, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him. If he claims ownership of your accomplishments, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him.

I cannot stress this enough, you live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book."

Easier said than done? You bet.





5 comments:

  1. But most people are "blind" at that moment.
    Thus many sad stories can be heard all the times.

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  2. Hi Angie, thanks for sharing this great posting.

    Regards,
    Amelia

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  3. That is really good piece of advice, I agree one should live his/herself first then think of others. Good post, going to share it with my circle

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  4. That is really good piece of advice, I agree one should live his/herself first then think of others. Good post, going to share it with my circle

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